July 31, 2012

Um, Hi. Remember Me, I used to blog here.

So I haven't been blogging, and even before that I wasn't doing a stellar job. I have a reason; an excuse, well at least I am using it to excuse myself, you can be the judge if it qualifies for you. If it does not suit you as a good excuse, I am sorry. If it does suit you as an excuse I am still a touch sorry- no not sorry embarrassed by the irony. 

I got married. I know, if you could see me you could appreciate my embarrassment. I know that is totally silly to start a single blog and then pretty soon after that find myself not so single. That isn't really the bad part, in fact I think meeting my husband and marrying his is the best thing ever. The embarrassing part is that I stopped blogging; I am sorry about that. 

However, even with the ring on my finger and the handsome man to go home to, I still have plenty of things to say. I hope you will let me continue writing. Yes I realize I am no longer single and that may alter the dynamic of this blog a bit, but only a bit. As you may recall the more I wrote about the things I struggled with and learned as a single girl the more I realized how universal these feelings and lessons were. My married friends seemed to be learning the same lessons, albeit maybe in a different way, and the had many of the same heartaches and concerns, even though the cause of these might come from a different source. Basically life is life and we all have more in common than we sometimes realize. Our experiences are different but our desires and struggles can be very similar. Plus, relationships are relationships; my husband and I continue to learn from each other and work at courting.Therefore, in many ways the content on the blog will be very much what it was before, except let's all hope I can be a more faithful and steady writer. 

I will still write about how I feel, what I learn, and what I am doing. Plus I have a few leftover lessons from my single days and the story of how the husband and I got together and what we have learned along the way. 

Stay tuned for more for the still not desperate new wife.